Today was an errand day and normally I have seen the worst of the worst kids in the store and in general being jerks, this is never my case with my own daughter. My daughter loves to go out, this is really the only time she will be on her best behavior, and this makes her a champion. So I had a number of places that I had on my to-do list, the first stop that wonderfull place of torture, wally wally world. Entering the store we have in our area for me is a nightmare, I get anxiety horribly due to the amount of people it attracts. Today was no different, pushing my two children in the cart my daughter in the basket my son in his car seat clipped on top, I avoid the hordes as much as possible. On top of the shear number of people the store gets, they seem to slow down and take time while blocking everyone else cruising the aisles, I prefer to be speedy gonzales and get it done and get out. Meanwhile my daughter is kneeling in the basket and for some reason she decides that mommy needs help, she begings to shake the side of the cart making it difficult to steer, this particular store is remodeling and acquired new carts. I calmly ask her to please stop shaking the cart as it is a bit disrupting, however my plea goes unheard as she is completely distracted, which is nothing to frown at. As I continue to push through I still feel the cart give way to the one side my daughter is shaking every now and then, and casually ask her (just to see if she will respond) to stop. Again a behavior that is not horrible, just more of an annoyance to me. I finish my search for my items and proceed to the self checkout, where my daughter will usually decide to help mommy with grabbing items, today this was not the case and I wondered what was on her mind. Usually she would be all too eager and pick up whatever she could get her hands on to give it to me, I enjoy she likes to help but I still want my items whole and not accidently dropped and broken, normally I will correct her for this. Side note: My daughter knows things she likes and had asked for a lunchable which I gladly picked up for her, she really only asks for food or drink and has yet to figure out she could ask for toys. I finish and head to the car, pack my bundles in and continue to the next location, game store for my partner, to find him a new not broken controller. I arrive unload the kids, my son weighs around 20 lbs in his car seat, and I can get my daughter to walk. She is however unaware of the dangers of parking lots and cars, and I normally take her out first. Before removing my son I tell my daughter to hold on to the front door handle, so I can keep her in my sight, as well as make sure she is not in any danger. Once I get my son out I head in the door, holding daughters hand, I ask about the specific controller to find its not in stock, no luck today. I head back out, pack back in, and check the next location. Once again I am faced with parking lot mayhem and again tell my daughter to hold onto the door handle. I check this store and no, no controller there either. I head back out, and somehow in the 2 minutes I had arrived at this store, some jerk head parked too close to the side I put my son on. Clearly they had no mind for anyone in medium size, let alone a car seat. I my self while having gained some extra weight, can no way go through there, or figure out how to handle my toddler. Going around the other side I faced the hazard of my daughter and an open parking lot, she has run off on us before when ever something catches her eye. Instead I chose to get her to stay on the sidewalk, I hated this because she ended up being too far for me to reach right away, but she was behaving and she stayed right where she was. I quickly tucked the car seat in then called her to the otherside and let her in the car. Unfortunately my day was not yet done, I had one more item on my list, for going the controller, I made my way to the local pet supply store to follow up on a new scratching post. And you guessed once again my daughter was holding the handle to the car door while she waited on me to remove her brother and head in. Inside the store, one of the ladies working there noticed my carrying a car seat and towing along a little girl, and she went above and beyond. Asking what I was there for, she graciously walked me to the area where the cat posts where and even got it off the top shelf for me ( what a doll, she was awesome). After grabbing the post down she asked my daughter if she would like to have some stickers, upon hearing that very word, my daughter repeated it gleefully. The lady walks us to the back desk where she kept these stickers and allowed my daughter to grab 2 boxes of 8 stickers and one large valentine heat sticker, she made my daughters day (thank you love). We then walked ourselves to the checkout where the other lady was waiting on us to pay for the post, after which she offered to haul it out to our car for us, which for me was a big help again. I thanked both ladies packed the kids in the car for the last time and headed for home. That was day 2 and not alot of adhd behavior but a good day to share and allow everyone to know the other side of my daughter as well as the kind people I came across today.